So after over six years together and my frequent freaking out over the W word; I or we have finally decided to get married. Woohoo.

In this blog I will share the freak outs and the downs and all the rest of the weddingy shit. I, as an upstanding male member of the community, do so solemnly swear not to turn into bridezilla and keep my head and my calm. There will be no cross dressing but there maybe a Barbra soundtrack if I get my way and although I don't want to be a queen about it... I'M THE BRIDE!!!

What kind of wedding should I have? The first, I presume, of a million questions I shall face. SO I'm asking for your help.

Nice to meet you I'M THE BRIDE